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关于婚姻
婚姻不容易。不同阶段，有不同的挑战。像定期健康体检、汽车保养一样，婚姻需要有定义的回顾与保养。而不是，不去做任何的检查，一旦出问题就是晚期绝症状态。在婚姻方面，教会应该做两件事：提供完整的婚前辅导、搭建一个婚姻守望平台：让每一对夫妻都能找到值得信任的夫妻朋友做定期的婚姻辅导；同时，也成为他人的婚姻辅导。
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Drifting without Direction
In 2025, I've gradually come to realize a troubling truth: over the past few years, I have become increasingly negative and passive. Before 2019, I had little money, yet I still dared to try many things - though most ended in failure. After 2019, life became ore stable, but I also lost my sense of pursuit, merely drifting along, pushed by life and circumstances.
At its root, the problem comes down to two things: the lack of a clear direction - what my Christian faith calls a calling - and the lack of courage. This is not a healthy state to remain in.
2025年慢慢清晰的意识到一个问题，最近几年我变得非常消极、被动。2019年以前没有什么钱，当时还会有很多尝试，尽管大部分是失败的；2019年后生活平稳了，但也变得没有一点追求了，只是被动的被生活、被环境推着走。归根到底，两个原因：没有明确的方向（基督信仰中称之为呼召）、缺乏勇气。这不是一个好的状态。
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I like making prototypes
Once the design direction is confirmed, I like to use detailed prototypes to the intended effect and experience of product. Although this approach may often seem inefficient or even clumsy, but it works well for me. The process of creating high-fidelity prototypes helps me to think thoroughly and with great nuance. The prototype itself also serves as an excellent tool for communicating with others- whether clients or engineers.
在设计方向确认后，我喜欢用尽可能细致的设计原型去展现产品应有的效果与体验。很多时候，这种做法显得低效与愚钝；但对我来说，很有效果。制作高保真原型的过程，能帮助我更充分、细腻的思考。原型本身，是与他人（客户/工程师...)沟通的绝佳工具；
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Dream of running design studio
Running a design studio had been my dream for many years, even when I had no resources or connections. Now, with abundant experience, resources, and networks, I no longer feel the desire to pursue it.
On reflection, there are two main reasons. First, I find communicating and co-creating with clients exhausting, even though it can sometimes be wonderful experience. Second, running a design studio is not particularly profitable - unless one reaches the very top of the industry.
开一个设计工作室，在过去很多年都是我的一个理想或者梦想；即使，那时候没有资源、没有人脉。 现在，外在条件齐备了很多，设计经验、资源、人脉都很丰富了。但却没有想做设计工作室的想法了。 细想，主要两个原因。其一，对于与客户沟通/共创感到厌烦，尽管有时也是一种美妙的体验；其二，做设计工作室也不是那么赚钱，如果不是做到行业顶尖的话。
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Thoughts on design
Just like writing, I believe design requires inspiration-whether in ideation or execution. When inspiration strikes, ideas flow endlessly. Conversely, in its absence, my output is minimal. Similarly, like a stage performance, after reaching a peak state in design - through bursts of continuous output or design presentations - I often fall into an emotional low of exhaustion, where I don't want to do anything but empty my mind.
正如写作，我相信设计是需要灵感的，不管是创意/构思，还是执行。灵感来了，文思泉涌。反过来，缺少灵感的时候，我的产出很少。又如舞台表演，设计的高峰状态之后（如：连续的产出，设计演示等），我会陷入一种精疲力竭的情绪低谷，什么都不想做，只想要放空。
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No Bible, no meal
Last night, I made a firm decision: from today on, I will read the Bible for 20 minutes every day. I had made this resolution many times before, but almost always ended in failure. The reason was simple - desire without action.
Today, I nearly failed again. As I was about to put breakfast into my mouth, a thought suddenly struck me: Read the Bible before eating. So I set the food aside and spent 20 minutes in Scripture. It was a wonderful experience.
From that moment, I established a rule for myself: No Bible, no meal. It feels harsh to me, but it truly works.
昨晚我下定了一个决心，从今天起坚持每天读圣经20分钟；我曾很多次立下这样的心志，但是几乎都以失败告终。原因是：只有愿望，没有行动。今天，我又差点失败了。当我正将早餐食物送入嘴中的时候，我突然被一个想法击中：读完圣经再吃东西。于是，我放下食物，阅读了20分钟神经。很美妙的体验。于是，我立下一个规矩：不读圣经，不吃饭。这对我来说，真够苛刻的；但真的有效。